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15 Minute Conversations

Life. In 15 minutes or less.
What if we had a 15 minute conversation with a stranger once a week? What would we learn? That's what I want to find out.
  • September 30, 2012 8:53 pm

    The first 15 Minute Conversation. That wasn’t a conversation at all.

    So here we are. On the eve of October 1, and the formal start of my second year-long project: 15 Minute Conversations.

    Completing the 365 Music Project was undoubtedly one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. But, in finishing the 365MP, I was ready to move in a new direction. And as luck would have it, just two days after wrapping up the 365 Music Project—and me looking forward to a glorious month-long blog vacation—I unexpectedly encountered my first 15 Minute Conversation. Which really wasn’t a conversation at all.


    On a flight from Minneapolis to New York, I found myself sitting next to local musician Brother Ali. And although I’ll admit I quietly high-fived myself and rocked out to some Brother Ali on this flight—cause awesome, right?—this is not the conversation of signficance.

    No, although Brother Ali was to my right, what intrigued me more was the mother to my left with one-year-old in tow.


    Now I know you’re thinking I suffered through a crying child during the whole flight. But, you’d be wrong. Although this mother did appologize profusely during the flight, it was instead for the sleeping infant on my left arm.

    And it was okay. Because for the next three hours, we were just two women doing what we could do to make sure this child had an enjoyable flight. Outside of her appologies, this mother and I never exchanged words. We didn’t have to. There was a common understanding of the human condition and good old-fashioned, built-in maternal instinct at play.


    It was a beautiful way to transition into 15 Minute Conversations.


    And so here we are, on the eve of another project that will hopefully lead me somewhere. Who will I meet? What will I learn? How will I be personally challenged? And where will I find myself exactly one year from tonight on the eve of its end.

    All questions I hope to discover the answer to over the course of the next year, 15 minutes at a time. What a journey we will have….

  • August 31, 2012 9:56 pm
    Tonight’s blue moon is the last until 7/31/15. What will you do with your life until then?  View high resolution

    Tonight’s blue moon is the last until 7/31/15. What will you do with your life until then? 

  • August 27, 2012 3:45 pm

    Did you ever have that one moment…

    Where you just, let go and said, “I don’t care what the other people around me are going to think.”


    I did. Once.

    Perhaps twice.



    Alright, so how about this, have you ever had that moment where you let go and you inspired other people to do the same?


    Now that, my friends.

    I haven’t done.

    But I’ve seen someone who can.

    Rupert.



    I first saw Rupert at a Jeremy Messersmith show—except I didn’t know who he was at the time. As I was watching the show, suddenly a man in the audience rose to his feet and triumphantly start dancing along to the songs. Really dancing.

    Like the other people around me, I too, wondered, “what in the world is this guy doing? Is he…okay?


    I mean, let me paint the picture for you: Here was this businessman in a tailored suit, just, letting go and absolutely enjoying himself. Dancing without a care in the world, not ashamed of who saw him, what they might think of him. He seized the moment and made it his to enjoy. It was incredible to watch. And I was jealous of his bravery. Of his ability to have such a genuinely innocent moment for all of us to experience. 


    The first time I saw Rupert, I didn’t dance.

    But the next time our paths crossed, I absolutely joined him.

    Because why not?



    Rupert connected with people. He inspired them. He gave them permission to live, if just for a moment. And life…it’s simply too short to let beautiful moments pass us by. We’re not as busy as we think we are. We’re not as lost as we should be. And we’re not nearly as burdened as we could be. 


    Rupert made me really wonder, what else am I missing out there? What things could I learn? About life. About love. About regret. About following your gut. Or not. 



    People have answers.

    And why can’t I just ask them?

    What would I learn along the way?



    So, for the next 52 weeks, I will set out to try and answer that question with complete strangers—Inspired by the courage of the guy who gave me the internal permission to do so. 


    To discover Life. 15 minutes or less. 



    Thanks Rupert. 

  • August 27, 2012 1:17 pm
    And let’s see what happens.

    And let’s see what happens.